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14 Years is Illegal

July 30, 2008

I am a traditionalist.  Surprised?  You shouldn’t be.  Since our 1st Anniversary I have always given my hubby something from the list of traditional gifts.  And this year is 14.  And the 14th anniversary gift is Ivory.  And Ivory is illegal.  But a dozen bars of Ivory Soap are not illegal. 

We exchanged gifts this morning.  I should have known and been prepared.  My man usually can’t even wait until the day of to give me a gift he’s excited to give.  He gave me a really pretty girly watch with numbers on the face…exactly what I wanted and started throwing hints down for about 2 months ago.  And he wrapped it in Ivory Soap wrappers!  How creative (and damn, he stole my Ivory Soap idea!). 

I gave him a dozen bars of Ivory Soap, a pair of fancy sunglasses that will last him a lot longer than his 5.99 Target pair, a very small stuffed elephant with fake stuffed ivory tusks that aren’t illegal, and the promise of a date to the zoo on a weekday when the kids are in school.  I found a website that recommended going on a Safari for the 14th anniversary to honor the elephant and ivory and a trip to the zoo once it’s cooler out will have to be our safari. 

I can’t believe it’s been 14 years.  He’s even hotter than the day we married.  I love him more than the day we married.  We have laughed more than I expected.  Cried more than I thought we would.  And I think he knows me better than I thought any one ever could.  I am so glad we are one and look forward to many more years together*. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

*Ok, I don’t really think we are "one" I just had to put that in there to tease a friend of mine.  As unromantic as it seems, I don’t really get the idea of "soul mates" either.  Man, what a depressing way to end a Happy Anniversary blog post…